Just
how long can one procrastinate about doing this? Well, I am my father’s child! My Mom would laugh at that.
There was no funeral for my Dad;
there was no obituary in the newspaper.
I just couldn’t do it. I wasn’t
ready at Christmas 2010 and I wasn’t ready at the one year anniversary,
either. But I’m ready now.
Malcolm Llewellyn Cannon
April 22, 1930 – April 28, 2010
Mac was born and grew up in Toronto, graduating from York
Memorial Collegiate Institute in 1948.
He then went on to Ryerson Institute of Technology where he studied jewelry-making
from 1949-1951. Why did he never become
a working jeweler? I must have asked,
because the impression I got: There were no jobs. Perhaps it was an early warning to avoid the
arts as a career!
Mac definitely had his weakness for military music from
an early age, earlier than I had thought. He started as a drummer and stayed a drummer
and drum major for many years, joining a variety of bands wherever he lived. The first band I remember was the Port Hope
Pipe Band, but unfortunately I’d need some prompting to recall names of any
members. I don’t think there is anyone
left to give those prompts… (oh, wait,
Ray Turk was a friend of his…. If I think about this long enough, who knows
what I’ll come up with!)
Another
passion Mac enjoyed was woodworking. I
don’t ever recall the house without some sort of project involving the cutting
and finishing of wood taking place. Mac
learned some useful observations while working with power tools which he passed
on to me. Things like:
- It doesn’t stop when you say “ouch”.
- Measure twice, cut once.
- If you’re going to hire a carpenter, count his
fingers….
Somewhere in the early years, he befriended Ken
Asselstine and they became lifelong friends.
Ken was the best man at Mac & Marie’s wedding in 1953 and may have
even had a hand in introducing them.
Ken was always the guy to reach out to Mac if he didn't hear from him.
The “real”
jobs began with Household Finance which he joined in October 1951 and he
remained in the Finance business for 20 years, moving from lackey to manager
and from Ontario to British Columbia with a two year “sentence” in Moose
Jaw.
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With Fred Watcher
I’d say a bit of Scotch had been consumed prior to this
photo….
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Ontario homes were in
Burlington, Port Hope, Aurora and Strathroy.
I gather Strathroy needed, or had just started, a pipe band. They required pipers, not drummers. “Drummers
are a dime a dozen” was a phrase I recall from somewhere. Okay, maybe
that’s my piper’s bias showing through…..
They needed pipers, so Mac learned to pipe. He was given his friend Dusty Miller’s pipes
and those are the pipes I later played.
Another important friendship was formed in Strathroy. Fred and Voda Watcher became lifelong friends
to my parents.
Strathroy was also where dachshunds became part of our
lives. And I’m pretty sure it wasn’t my mother’s
choice of breeds! Schnapps, Schmidt,
Teufel and a host of other four-legged furkids, named after various German
field marshalls, left their marks on our hearts. And the occasional chewed high heels….
Mac didn’t
think too much of Moose Jaw. He wasn’t
much for howling winds and Saskatchewan gumbo, as he called the mud there. He did make a friend that he always spoke of
with fondness. John Stolarski was an
RCMP dogmaster who lived with his family near us. I have vague memories of a New Year’s Eve
party with John in his red serge and Mac in his kilt topped by John’s buffalo
coat. That could be the night I came in
from playing street hockey with frost-bitten toes….. Mom was all dressed up.
Mac took me
to Taylor Field in Regina to watch my first Saskatchewan Roughriders’
game. I got heat stroke there…. Hey.
*I* liked Saskatchewan! Sand
dunes on the window sills, tumbleweed caught in the fence, snow drifts over the
house. What’s not to like? And Dad gave me 25₵ a week to go to the
Sprigs O’ Heather Pipe Band and learn to pipe.
He said he wouldn’t teach me and likened it to teaching your wife to
drive.
Mac must have thought he won the lottery when he pulled
the manager’s job in Duncan, BC. In 1968
we left the gumbo behind. Mac stayed
with the finance business till 1971 when he started a furniture refinishing
business. During the summers I often got
to go on various jobs with him as an extra set of hands. I cannot count the number of things I learned
and the confidence I gained by watching and listening. I don’t think Mac was ever bored as a
self-employed person, but I think some of the jobs weren’t too much fun. Like cleaning up after fires. For a while his work vehicle was a Volkswagen
Bug. He removed the back seat and it was
amazing what he could fit inside that thing!
And another
pipe band was born in his wake. I was in
this one and that band took us all over. It seemed like every summer weekend
involved a parade or band competition somewhere. The Seattle Seafair Parade was one trip of
particular memory. The crowd was so
noisy Mac had to walk alongside each rank of pipers and yell the name of the
next set we would play. There was
security on the tops of the buildings – and they were armed. We were *really* glad they liked bagpipes!
In the 80’s
Mac was an industrial first aid attendant.
I’m surprised he never studied to become a paramedic. He was fascinated with Biology. I still have
his coveted Biology text book. Maybe it was the Latin he liked. Weird.
First Aid took him all over BC, mostly to mining sites and construction.
During this
time, my parents built and re-designed their home overlooking Cowichan Bay. They
became cat owners and staff to furry ladies.
The family joke
was that Mac was a “do-it-yourself husband” with a “get it done wife”. Sometimes it’s just better to hire a
contractor…. And that is what they
should have done with the spiral staircase in the silo. It was not finished when my mother passed
away. It was not done when he passed
away. It was almost as though when it
was finished there was no reason to go on.
Mac died of
lung cancer six days after his 80th birthday. He had stopped smoking 20 years earlier. We had a little party in the hospital on his
birthday and the highlight was watching his eyes light up when he saw his
oldest grandson. Perhaps he was remembering the tiny boy who wanted to trade
his soother for a sip of beer.
I miss his
quirky humour and twisted turns of phrase.
I miss his ability to fix almost anything. I miss “tool talk” and discussions about his
“beloved BC Lions”. I miss stopping at
Cowichan Bay.
A belated thanks
to Karyn Hatt for being such a kind friend and neighbor to both Mac and Marie
over the years. You are a gem.
In memory of
Mac, give your kitty or doggy an extra long hug today or listen to some celtic
music. Or both.